i miss my girls

Life

things haven’t been a smooth ride for me lately with work piling up and all
i can’t surf the net much
i can’t msn much
i feel left out and adrift from the ladies
i need sum KKPL lurve pwetty pls…

23 comments

  10. but i'm worried. at the rate that they are going, its endless.
    and we're merely speaking up to our/her defense. just like somebody else is.
    so i hope no one tells us to shut up when they're obviously not doing the same.

    …and just when i thought we saw the end of things. bummer.

  12. ? i tot it's supose to b ova wen they mit up? tare r issues tat i came to noe abt. n tat she were to kip in touch. but didnt. how can tat b ova? tare issues basically goin thru ur backs. i speak wif no qualms as i do as i say and say as i do.

  13. i haf no probs wif u. if u haf any, then b seen. tings aint wat it sims b4 u n it aint gona get any beta btwn them if tings don come out clean. we choose to interfere to be middle managers, n tot it was ova myself but was told tings didnt go again as was said to. n so i read. sik of tis issue but it wont stop till the fat lady sings, rite? i don defend coz she's my flesh n blood, but i did coz i hate it wen u stoop low, resortin to use ur frens name, eventho she's engaged,juz to get attention, juz to get love. n here u r trying to defend. u noe? i juz got to noe… seek tha truth, tats da reason we r in btwn tis.

  15. anyway huda, as i have msged you smlm wen u sms me, i dont deny that the 2 parties involved are not wrong but hey thats in the past. If they are to do it now then thats a diff story.

    As a fren and as wat i have mentioned to you, using names will get u into so much trouble. it was used against someone by my close fren and the person got sued for defamatory. So i guess you as the elder sis you wont want ur sis to get into trouble.

    Like is said they are at fault but tats in the past. wat do you gain from raking it back?

  16. u dont undastand coz its unspoken truth by ur fren… yup, i agree we gain noting in raking the past, however, tis is human, perhaps the disatisfaction she get is she culdnt believe tat a gal culd do sumting lyk tat to anotha. Abt the defamatory ting, i juz checkd my sis's m, she only plcd miss g.. Tat was it. I can only advise, the rest is up to her. I can undastand how she fil coz it hapend to me recently n i guess u noe who. Ntah lah tini all these hapen for a reason and the hurt she received was a great impact. I m here n i so r u to setle the mater, but 1 chose to b vocal n the otha to lay low. Wateva it is, she had calmed down afta a session of tok but as to wetha she will nt fil more hatred, tat i cant tell. She is waiting 4 her to kol, nt to make tings worse, but to juz sit and tok, as u said it b4 amicably. Lyf's aint abt making enemies but having frens. She got wat she fot 4 and so does my sis. No losers in the end. The part tat u didnt undastand, mayb 1 day i hope she will open up to u. I had seen and read the way she try to get the attn frm him. Lyk i had said it in my sis m, i dont hate her, but i despise her ways to get love. Even to resort to using fren's name. But as u said it, it was the past, maybe 1 day u will realise and comprehend wat i m trying to say.

  17. k la tini, tings r gettin noware. Lyk how miss g fil, the obligation to defend her fren, the way i fil wen it comes to my sis. Wateva tat hapen, hapen for a reason and wateva past tat happend, it shuld b settled then. It dragged on too long. Wateva, again, i n u r juz parties involved to setle but it aint goin anyware, coz neitha party haf the same willing to do so. k la, really tired of tis. goin round n noting settled. if by God permits, it will uncova soon. K? Nitez

  18. hmmm only miss gum u mean?

    have you forgotten the spark that made us commented back was because your sister put up our bestfren's name her email address too? just because she deleted it away that doesnt mean it erases everything. we are smart enuff to print that entry out. if you would like us to refresh your memory we would be glad to show that printed entry to you.

    what your sister is raking has no meaning. seeing her emails to our bestfren is plain rude. even when our bestfren didnt reply she kept harassing her. and because of her rudeness our bestfren will not meet her not because our bestfren is a coward.

  19. Oct last year, ur sis dropped the other an email to settle it “amicably” but from the way she wrote those emails i dun think it was amicably. it was just plain rude. i understand she is angry but the other only replied once and it wasn't even retaliation. But ur sis kept on going and going calling her names and such. I can print out the emails for you if you want to defend your sister.

    Nyways i'm sure you have gone thru similar stuffs but for you to confront another, i'm sure u'd ask as an adult first and not just tongue-lash. If the first email to ask for a meet-up did not include words like “eh suar!” (i quote) or “tak ya susah2 pakai tudong” (again i quote), maybe this matter could've been solved since last october.

    dah lah huda, we are just as tired too. please bear in mind that our friend is not going to meet-up your sister in the angry state that she's in right now. do what you think is best. im pretty sure you guys will still be going on and on about this 'unsolved' matter in multiply and d-art. no one can stop u guys nyways.

    take care.

  20. guess, i haf to answer to u both. wateva email u haf as EVIDENCES, pls do kip them. I nid no previu of those. Wateva i had read in the msn chat is rather spontaneous in her reaction in pursuit of love. yah, wateva emails tat were sent out by my sis is due to the anger. But it got worse wen she saw ur frens' names, in msn chat, juz to get her love. It's not wat ur otha frens did to my sis, but wat ur dear fren did to hers. I knew n i tink every1, knew tat a couple of u is engaged. But, i tink ur dear fren disrespect tat, It's none of my sis prob but it wasnt the rite ting to do, to betray a fren and her as well. But u r cool abt tat then i m shall not botha too. I tokd to her again laz nite and warned her against her angry words and ettiquette. Howeva, i did sum soul searching too. Tis kinda issues, shuld be handled tare n then wen the prob starts. Not tis yr, or Oct laz year. B it tgh marah ke, tgh cool ke, tgh ape2 ke. U noe u did wrong u own up or apologise. Its the mater of facing the music, wen u dare play the tunes, u dare dance to it. We are nt foreva angry pepol, so a mit up then, shuld haf solve tings beta. The initiation of a mit up but neva comes thru, causes unsatisfactory recoils.
    Tapi da terjadi, n tym passes by fast. Tis is a lesson learnt. Don create a hole, wen u noe u gonna fall badly in and takes a long tym to b on ground again. Conscience is all i got to say to ur dear fren, k? She mite nt mit my sis or even face her, but she ought to rememba tat she will always c u and the rest.
    Tired as it is, sik wif this too. Oh yah, age is nt the factor of maturity or cleverness. Evryting in lyf we learn outside school and we r nt judged by the certs we hold in maters of lyf. So perhaps, stop the demining ting u do abt bein young or old. Coz the old is neva always rite and the young is neva short of experiences.
    Take care too. Take very good care.

  21. 🙂

    cik viva, i know u meant well. we all know that. we all dont wanna prolonged the whole matter too. but please, be clearer about this engaged couple or whathaveyous and the whole deal with it, cause seriously tini tak paham, gum tak paham, arfah tak paham, semua bestfren mel tak paham ni part. what unspoken truth are you talking about.. cause believe me, isn't it all the better if u stop beating around the bush.

    mel and us all know how badly hurt and betrayed your sister is. she has not been too discreet about it. we feel her. but she has got to stop these name callings so we can start be rational all over again.

    like u said..” seek the truth..”, so, let it out. we can handle the truth anyway.

  22. Dear Ms i-don-noe-how-to-spell-ur-tag, hahaha! Sorie, i really didnt noe how to spell it…
    Its nt tat i didnt want to thrash out wat da hell i m toking abt clearly coz i tink its bez tat ur dear fren ckp sendiri. Mana tau nanti hari raya dia mintak maap kat korg n dia will kata semua ker… Its up to her to be truthful of wat she did eventhough its in the past. I noe U can handle the truth but i hope she herself come clean. Aite? Lyk wat i wrote in my previous reply to tini, tats my laz words to ur dear fren tu…
    “Conscience is all i got to say to ur dear fren, k? She mite nt mit my sis or even face her, but she ought to rememba tat she will always c u and the rest.”
    Okie?
    Abt the name calling n all, rest assured i had spoken to my sis and i noe she is matured, wise n sensible enuf nt to do tat. Kita pun da malas nk reverse back to wateva tat had hapend. N we learnt frm all the mistakes done frm the start of the prob till today. Well, if tare aint no cat fites then we r nt gals rite? But hopefully my dear, ur bf x do wat she did, esp. wen frens r concern… Aite? Nitez